you are never hard to love You were simply loving the wrong person who wasn't ready to receive the love you have. This has nothing to do with your worth or whether you're unlovable. You have to understand that loving someone who can't meet you on the same wavelength has nothing to do with what you can't give or with your flaws. You are just in the wrong room with people who can't see you yet, and while it feels impossible to find the place where you truly belong, know that you'll still get there. The right people will cherish you for who you are, not in spite of it.