I agree with Jamey… I had a similar situation. I was going through an awful period in my life and this one friend always wanted to talk about her issues all the time. The relationship began to feel very one sided. I tried speaking to her but it didn’t help. So I told her I was going to pull away for a while to focus on my healing. We are now getting closer again but I have realized that she is very self focused and if it ever happens again, then I just explain that I need some space, as she is unable to be there for me during these times in a way that helps me, however, she is able to show up at other times, so the friendships is still important to us both and we are working our way through it 🙏