a conversation about how i feel is not supposed to end in an argument. because when i open up, i'm not trying to start a fight, i just want to be honest about what's happening inside me. sharing my feelings is not an attack, and it shouldn't make the other person feel like they need to defend themselves. i just want to feel seen, heard, and understood. i want a safe space where we can talk without blaming each other. i want someone who listens, not someone who turns my pain into another argument.