Sentences to finish before getting married 1. One thing I didn't get growing up, but want in my marriage, is... 2. My biggest fear in relationships is... 3. A safe relationship, to me, looks like... 4. The one thing I couldn't accept in a relationship is... 5. My role as a partner is to... 6. My top three emotional needs are... 7.I usually get triggered when... 8. When there's conflict, I tend to... 9. I believe the purpose of marriage is... 10. What I value most in a partner is... 11.I feel most loved when... 12. One expectation I need to let go of in marriage is... 13. A habit I want to bring into marriage is... 14. A habit I want to leave behind is... 15. To me, intimacy means...