Sometimes healing looks like changing your definition of home; maybe it's no longer a person or a place, but a feeling you create inside yourself. You begin to realize that the security you once sought in others can be cultivated by trusting your own judgment, by speaking kindly to yourself when you make mistakes. The more at home you feel with your own company, the less you'll tolerate people who make you feel like a visitor in your own life. This is the work that feels lonely at first but ultimately makes you feel less alone.