Be complete on your own first, because wholeness should never be borrowed from someone else. Find someone who complements you, not someone you need to feel like a full person. Choose a partner who adds value to your life, not someone who fills temporary voids. A healthy relationship is to strong people choosing each other—not two broken halves clinging. When you know who you are, you attract someone who respects your individuality. And when they know who they are, they won't demand you shrink to fit their insecurities. Together, you amplify each other's strengths instead of competing with them. You balance each other's weaknesses without turning them into weapons. You grow individually while growing together, without losing yourselves in the process. That's the kind of love that builds, not breaks— the kind that feels like home, not survival.