You Are Not Meant to Suffer to Be Loved Pain is not a prerequisite tor worth. Struggle is not a qualification for belonging. You do not have to earn love by enduring more, proving more, or breaking yourself open for approval. Love isn't a reward for survival. It's a natural response to truth. The moment you stop confusing suffering with depth, you begin to allow what has always been available to meet you. You were never meant to be tested into being lovable. You were meant to be received as you are.