People don't wanna hear this, but let's be real When your words don't match your actions, that's not a "mistake," that's manipulation. And when you twist the story to make the other person feel crazy for calling it out? That's not "defensiveness," that's gaslighting. Stop dressing up toxicity as "miscommunication." It's not confusing, it's calculated. It's not love, it's control. Call it what it is ABUSE And the moment you see it for what it is. You'll never let anyone play you like that again.