"all you ever want to do is argue." i just want you to understand that your actions are hurting me. i'm not trying to start a fight or prove who's right, i just want you to see how your words and choices make me feel. when i try to talk about it, it's because i care and want to make things better. i want us to fix things, not break them even more by pretending nothing's wrong. i wish you'd stop seeing every talk as a fight and start seeing it as me trying to save what we have. i'm not asking for much, just a calm talk, a little understanding, a little effort, and a little care. because when i speak up, it's not to argue, it's to show you that i still care enough to try and make us work.