A real green flag: someone who never asks you to make yourself smaller just to keep things calm. Someone who lets you be unsure, overwhelmed, or silent-without turning it into a punishment. They don't shame you for feeling deeply or loving loudly. They don't twist your softness into a flaw. They simply remain-steady, patient, and present. And in a world that taught you to survive by tucking away the loudest parts of who you are, that kind of safety feels almost unbelievable.