Some people must be spared the pity. They know what they are doing. There are only so many times you can make excuses for disrespectful, slimy behavior. There are only so many instances where you can choose to see the best in people despite them taking your kindness for foolishness. It gets to a point where your intuition was right all along. All you can do is to continue moving forward despite their intention to drag you down to their level. Some people get a twisted sense of validation from hurting innocent people just because they have what they want. And you can wish these people healing. And you can choose to focus on what matters to you. But you don't need to accept mistreatment in any way, shape, or form. Cut the cord. Cut them off. Your understanding nature is not an invitation to be played with. Reserve your energy for those who appreciate it.