Not giving emotional safety to someone who deserves it, yet expecting them to sacrifice and maintain peace, is peak selfishness. You can't keep someone's heart racing with anxiety instead of excitement and still expect comfort around you. If they can't trust you with their feelings, how are they supposed to offer real commitment? When someone is constantly doubting because of your behaviour, it stops feeling like love. It turns into survival, not companionship, just getting through instead of growing together. Everything starts feeling like a test you didn't sign up to take but still have to pass. They're expected to meet expectations, understand emotions, even read minds when needed. But their own feelings are dismissed as unnecessary drama every single time. They're not the problem, they're just reacting to the chaos they're tolerating. Because dealing with emotionally lazy people who avoid accountability exhaustion. isn't love, it's exhaustion.