marry someone who calls you back after an argument just to make sure you're okay. not someone who leaves you alone while you cry and overthink everything. choose the one who cares more about fixing the problem than being right. the one who speaks calmly instead of shouting when upset. someone who stays and works through things, even when times feel hard. choose the one who protects your heart, even in anger. someone who doesn't let pride become bigger than love. someone who knows that winning an i argument means nothing if they lose you.