the most attractive thing in a man is when he admits he has feelings for you and makes it clear that he wants you. no mixed signals. no mind games. no leaving you confused. he likes you, so he shows it. he wants to be with you, so he makes an effort. simple. there's just something attractive about a man who is honest about how he feels and doesn't make you guess where you stand in his life. in a world full of confusion, clarity is attractive.