Emotional healing asks you to look with and begin untangling your self-worth from external measures of performance, productivity, and success or failure. You do not suddenly become more deserving of love when you reach the mountaintop. And you do not become less worthy of love when you stumble into a valley. Love is not something you are meant to earn, and your goodness and worthiness are not up for debate. Instead, emotional healing reminds you to root your identity in your character, your integrity, your courage, and your capacity to love and be loved. Pt3