Forget breakups what about the person you met and shared something brief but so intense with? You weren't officially dating, so you can't really call it a relationship. But to reduce it to a "situationship" feels like an insult to what it truly was. Because it was more than labels it was deep, unexplainable, almost intangible. And when you try to put it into words, people look at you like you're exaggerating or making it up. They don't see that some connections can shake your soul without ever fitting into neat definitions. The hardest part is realizing how do you find closure for something that never really began, yet still managed to change you?