The People Who Drain You Without Raising Their Voice Not all draining people are loud. Some are quiet and subtle. They leave you feeling exhausted without clear conflict. Pay attention to your energy around others. It reveals more than words. Over time, you begin to understand this on a deeper level. It changes how you see people, how you see yourself, and what you are willing to accept moving forward. The awareness might feel heavy at first, but it is also what creates real change.