all a girl wants is to not have to ask. she wants someone who pays attention, someone who notices the little things without her having to point them out every time. she wants effort that comes naturally, not only when she reminds you. she wants to feel cared for even in simple ways, being checked on, being understood, being thought of. she wants someone who remembers what she likes, what she hates, what makes her smile, and what calms her down. she wants a kind of love that doesn't make her feel needy for wanting the basics. she wants to feel loved without having to beg for it.