don't teach a man how to love you. don't remind him to update you, reassure you, or make time for you. don't beg him to buy you flowers, take you on dates, or plan surprises. don't beg for the smallest things and call it "understanding" because a man who truly wants to keep you will naturally do the things that make you feel loved. if he wanted to, you wouldn't have to keep explaining the same thing over and over. you wouldn't feel guilty for asking for effort. love is not supposed to feel like a full-time job where you keep teaching someone how to care. the right man will notice the little things, make time for you, and do things because he wants to, not because you begged him first.