It's all about who and what you're giving your attention to. Not everyone out there has purpose, intelligence, or even the most basic common sense to deserve access to you. You don't have to respond just because someone decided to ask you something. Every question is not a responsibility, and every opinion does not require your participation. Silence is free, powerful, and sometimes far more elegant than a rushed reaction. Ask yourself honestly, do you really have that much free time to donate to people who add nothing? And even if you somehow do, try new shades of blush, reorganize your closet, romanticize your tea, literally anything else. At least that will add color to your face, not stress to your brain, that effort will make you glow instead of draining you. Remember, there is absolutely no refund policy on wasted time and energy, so spend it like it's precious.