"abs or biceps?" an untouchable man who wouldn't let other girls get close or touch him. he doesn't treat other girls the way he treats me, and he doesn't give them the same attention. not because he can't, but because he chooses not to. he knows what we have and respects it. he doesn't entertain flirty jokes, doesn't reply in a way that feels wrong, and doesn't make me feel insecure. and even when i'm not there, he still acts the same. that's the kind of man i want. not perfect, just someone who is sure about me, and never makes me feel like i have to compete for his attention.