he wasn't a bad boyfriend. he just didn't know how to handle a girl like me. he didn't know how to love someone who feels things deeply, notices every small change, and needs honesty, communication, and effort. he wasn't ready for a girl who gives her whole heart, who cares too much. he didn't understand my silence, or the way i pull away when i feel unseen. he couldn't handle someone who needs reassurance or who gets hurt by small things. he wasn't a bad person. he just couldn't give the kind of love i needed. and that's okay. some people just aren't ready to handle the depth of another heart, no matter how hard they try. sometimes hearts just don't fit, and that's how we learn to find the ones that do.