You're doing better than you think. I know your mind likes to play games with you by dialing in on every flaw, mistake, or imperfection, but there's a bigger picture to all of this. If you really kept score, you would notice that you get more right than you get wrong. That you succeed more than you fail. That you're more kind than you are mean. That you're more liked than you are hated. That you're more capable than you are helpless. Harsh, self-deprecating thoughts might come more easily to you, but they are not accurate reflections of the truth.