if you ask me what kind of man I want, I'd say a gentleman. But if you ask me on a deeper level, i want a man who doesn't smoke and isn't easily influenced by his friends. A man who shows love love through his actions, not just sweet words. A man who respects boundaries and doesn't get too close to other girls. A man who notices the small things without being asked or checks on me without being asked. Someone who understands me even when it's not easy, and values real time together more than empty promises and excuses. Real love is shown in actions, not words.