When we crave commitment from people who don't reciprocate our feelings, it's often because we've internalized their rejection. We've mistakenly convinced ourselves that their rejection is a reflection of our inadequacies, and the only way to heal the pain is by winning their approval. But this never works. Even if we eventually win their love, we will continue to feel wildly unworthy of it. Because the initial pain of rejection was never actually healed — it was just buried under a relationship. The only way to liberate yourself from this cycle is to accept and release rejection. You must realize that rejection isn't about you. It's not personal. It doesn't define your value in any way. Your role isn't to convince someone of your worth, but to meet someone who feels naturally drawn to your light.