let them lose you instead of trying to convince them to see your worth. when you try too hard to prove yourself to others, you give them control over how you see yourself. you start depending on their approval to feel good enough. but the truth is, your worth doesn't come from anyone else. if someone keeps making you fight for a place in their life, they are not the right people for you. the right ones won't leave you wondering if you are good enough, lovable enough, or important enough. so let them go. let them lose you. it may hurt for a while, but one day, you will realize that losing people who can't see your worth is not a loss at all.