i got upset because of your actions. you got upset because of my reaction to your actions. that's not the same. deep down you know it. i didn't wake up wanting to argue or create drama. i just responded to how you made me feel. if you had treated me with care, there would have been nothing to react to. don't twist the story and make me the problem. my reaction came from hurt, not hate or anger. take responsibility for what started this, not just how i responded.