WHEN I TALK ABOUT PUTTING MYSELF FIRST When I talk about putting myself first, I don't mean neglecting the people I love or those who need help in the world around me. It doesn't mean I will stop giving and refuse to interact generously with anybody. I'm speaking about reclaiming my power and first recharging it within so I can pour from a full glass. When I talk about finally putting myself first, I mean all the energy I was giving to the wrong people, those who never appreciated me or betrayed me is withdrawn. I mean I no longer have an interest in non-genuine company. I'm speaking about protecting my mind, body, and spirit and prioritizing my healing. Redirecting your love inward is not selfish. It is necessary, especially following a period of neglect. This is emotional nourishment so you realize what you deserve and show up as your best self.