You are not responsible for fixing someone who does not want to change. You can care about them and still accept that their growth is up to them. No amount of patience, love, or effort can make someone choose better if they do not want to. That choice has to come from them. A healthy relationship should not take away your peace. It should not leave you tired, anxious, or constantly trying to hold everything together. If loving someone means losing yourself, then something is wrong. You are allowed to walk away from what hurts you, even if you once cared deeply. Your peace is not too much to ask for.