One day, the memories will play back in your mind and they won't hurt you as much. They won't make your world stop. Instead, they will help you realize that what happened happened for a reason. That you deserved so much more than you got, and even though there are happy memories to look back on, there are an equal share of bad ones. There are moments you looked past because you were happy and in love - moments that should've made you question whether they were the right person for you. Now, when those memories cross your mind, they don't make you wonder what you did wrong or make you doubt yourself or want them back. They make you understand that whether they loved you or not at one point, those feelings slipped away after a while because, in the end, they treated you like you didn't mean anything to them. And that's your answer. That's all you remember when their memories come back - that they hurt you and that you're better off now without them.