if they want to talk to you, they will. if they want to be with you, they will. if they truly want to fix things, they will try. you should not be the only one reaching out, calling first, or making plans. love and effort should go both ways. one sided love will only make you feel tired, confused, and not valued. that is not healthy, and it is not fair to you. you deserve someone who chooses you clearly, not someone you have to chase or beg to stay.