The Truth About People Who Only Show Up When It's Convenient Some people know exactly when to appear. They come back when they are lonely or when it suits them. And for a while, it can feel like they care. But consistency tells a different story. Real connection does not disappear when things get inconvenient. People who only show up when it works for them are comfortable taking without giving much in return. Accepting that their presence is conditional is difficult, but necessary. Over time, you begin to understand this on a deeper level. It changes how you see people, how you see yourself, and what you are willing to accept moving forward. The awareness might feel heavy at first, but it is also what creates real change.