when something is not for you, it will keep disappointing you until you finally understand. it shows the same pain in different ways until you start to see it clearly. the truth is, some things are not meant to stay, no matter how hard you try to hold on. you get tired, and that's when everything begins to make sense. not everything that feels right is actually right for you. sometimes the lesson is not to fix it, but to walk away. and when you accept that, the pain slowly loses its hold, and you finally understand that what keeps hurting you was never meant to be kept.