you can't change a man, but a man who truly loves you will want to change on his own. not because you forced him, begged him, or kept reminding him, but because he cares about how his actions affect you. when someone values you, they pay attention to the things that hurt you and try to do better. love makes a person more aware, more patient, and more willing to grow. it doesn't mean he will be perfect, but it means he will try. real love shows in effort. when a man truly cares, you won't have to fight for change, because he chooses it himself.