Hi Jenna, I’ve had 2 kids and even if you were rich with a whole community to help, it’ll still be tough the 1st year, especially for the 1st few months! Everything changes suddenly, even your relationship with your partner is forced to change as there’s suddenly 3 of you, one of which is a tiny thing that is completely dependent on you. My advice would be, grab sleep whenever you can and talk to your partner. Let each other understand where you’re at and grab any free opportunity you have to connect. Whether it’s a quick nap together cuddling, or a 5 minute chat and laugh whilst your changing the baby’s diapers etc. also, manage your expectations during this 1st year and focus on being a team to support each other. With love, time and respect, you grow as a happier and more connected couple. But be gentle with yourselves during this process 🫶
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