Sometimes being too understanding is the reason you're never understood. You're the one who says, "Don't worry, I'll wait," when they're late. You're the one saying "no problem" when they cancel at the last minute. You're the one staying quiet when your feelings are ignored. Slowly, you start to feel unseen in your own relationships. People forget that you have limits too. They forget that you need someone to meet you halfway. Being understanding doesn't mean you don't need to be understood.