The Gratitude You Avoid Nobody likes to admit this, but sometimes you're not unhappy; you're ungrateful. Not intentionally; just blind to what's quietly holding you together. The people who show up. The meals you didn't have to worry about. The body that keeps you alive without needing assistance. It's easier to chase the life you don't have than notice the one you already do. But here's the truth: your life isn't missing as much as you think. You just stopped looking at what's right in front of you.