"you're missing someone who knows exactly how to contact you." sometimes, that's already enough reason not to reach out again. silence is an answer too. if they wanted to talk, they would. you don't have to knock on a door that's already closed from the inside. the truth is, you could send a message, you could try, you could reach out again. but do you really want to always be the one trying, always the one reaching out? you're missing someone who knows how to contact you. so if they're not calling, texting, or showing up, let them. it's not your job to break your own heart just to prove you care.