everytime you talk bad about me, just make sure you mention all the good things i did for you when you needed me. tell them how i was there when you felt alone. tell them how i helped when things were hard for you. tell them how i stayed kind even when i had my own problems. tell them how i showed up when others disappeared. i'm not saying you owe me anything, and i'm not asking for praise. i'm just saying, if you speak on my name, speak honestly. do not tell one side and hide the parts where i cared for you. tell the whole story, not just the part that makes you look better.