The goal was to find someone who speaks your language, matches your vibe, and be a little crazy together. But all I got was translating someone's unresolved feelings for them. Lowering my energy to match their laziness and being driven crazy by them. Somewhere along the way I realized I wasn't in a relationship, Iwas parenting them and being responsible for them and that's so unfair. So I had to find a way out for myself. I did the next best thing, I taught myself to love me. Now I speak my language, I match my vibes, and I drive myself crazy, which is still better than allowing some idiot to do that to me. I'm not asking everyone to be like me, I'm just asking you all to be happy and fall in love with yourself first. Show them how you love, pamper, and support yourself and make that the bare minimum standard, if they can match it or do more there's a chance, and if they can't, you still have yourself anyway.