If they wanted to, they would. Because when you wanted to, you did. You made time, even when you were tired. You showed up, even when it wasn't easy. You replied, even on busy days. You cared without being asked. It wasn't perfect, but it was real effort. That's why it hurts when you don't get the same energy back. Not because you're asking for too much, but because you already know what trying looks like. You've done it. You've proven it. And when someone cant meet you there, it becomes clear. It's not about being busy, they just didn't try hard enough for you.