You can give everything you have, and still they notice the one thing you couldn't do. They don't see how much you've done for them. Over time, your effort becomes normal. Expected. Your kindness turns into something they think you are supposed to give. But miss it once-just one time —and suddenly that's all they see. Not the ten times you showed up. Only the one time you didn't. This may sound harsh, but you'll never satisfy someone who isn't grateful. The more you give, the more they expect. The faster they forget. And the easier they point to what you missed. It's like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in the bottom. Because when gratitude is missing, nothing you give will ever feel like enough.