International women's day As a woman, you need to be strong, yet vulnerable, or men won't hang around too long. You need to stand up for what you believe in, but knowing when to keep quiet, if you want to win. Choose a career before marriage and family, but don't wait too long, or you'll live alone and unhappily, Always chase after your dreams, but don't be too determined, or you'll come across as mean. When you have kids, stay focused on your career, but still be around to raise them, their happiness depends on you being near. Whatever path you walk, there will be those who say you chose wrong. So, drown out the noise and travel your own song. No matter what crown you choose to wear, there will always be those who judge and stare. There is no right way to do it, it's true, Whatever woman you choose to be, should be unapologetically decided by you.