the downside of being emotionally intelligent is that you're willing to understand things from everyone's perspective, but people are often not able to give that same understanding to you. you spend so much time making sure others feel seen and heard. you excuse their mistakes because you understand their pain. but when it's your turn to be understood, it often feels like no one truly listens. they forget that you have emotions too. they forget that you also need support, comfort, and someone to see things from your point of view. so who will understand you the way you understand others? who will give the same patience and kindness that you always give?