they will eventually bring out the worst too. So stop depending on people to discover your potential like it's their responsibility. They aren't always exploring you-sometimes they're quietly studying your soft spots and fears. Your vulnerabilities become their favourite tools, not something they help you overcome. And the moment you speak up, they'll weaponize "I was there for you" without blinking. They'll guilt-trip you for the very pain they contributed to, like it's some favour. So be careful who you let into the deepest corners of your heartbreak. Instead of exposing you wounds to someone who might misuse them, sit with them yourself. Explore your pain, understand it, and rise above it stronger than anyone expected.