Unfortunately, I'll never be the woman who babysits a grown man. I don't set rules, check phones, or remind someone how to respect me. If a man needs control to stay loyal, he lacks discipline and discipline is attractive to me. I believe in self-control, not supervision. In standards, not surveillance. In a man who chooses right even when no one is watching. If I have to manage your behavior, you're already disqualified. I don't compete, I don't chase, and I don't warn twice. A real man controls himself. Anything less isn't my man it's my lesson.