You don't owe respect to anyone who chooses to disrespect, mistreat, or abuse you. You're not obligated to offer kindness or empathy to someone who intentionally tries to hurt you. If they come at you with cruelty, they don't get to be upset when you finally stand up for yourself. You don't have to stoop to their level, but you also don't have to sit there and tolerate it. Let them be mad when you set boundaries, protect your peace, and walk away. Their reaction isn't your responsibility-your healing is.