Stop "Translating" his silence into "Depth." When he doesn't call, doesn't check in, or stays emotionally distant, you tell yourself he's "brooding," "hurt," or "intense." The truth is usually much simpler: he's unavailable. God's girl doesn't need a decoder ring to understand if a man values her. If you have to spend hours analyzing "mixed signals," the signal is actually very clear: it's a "No."