marry the man who still calls you after an argument. the one who checks if you're okay and makes sure you know you he still cares. the man who stays when it gets hard and who wants to fix things instead of ignoring them. the one who listens even when it's not easy, who doesn't try to win by raising his voice, and who tries to understand you, not prove you wrong. marry the man who makes you feel safe to speak, safe to feel, safe to be human. because that's the kind of love worth choosing every day.