You're not responsible for other people's reactions, healing, choices, toxic behaviour, thoughts, decisions, growth, expectations, opinions, feelings of validation, insecurities, success, fears, mistakes, judgements, lack of boundaries, self-sabotage, projections, sense of identity, past actions, perception of you, resentments, emotional baggage, passive aggressiveness, narcissism, victim mentality, avoidance, or abuse directed towards you. You cannot fix anyone. You can only allow them the space to work on their negative patterns. You can encourage them, but you cannot take responsibility for making them better. They must choose it for themselves. They have to decide to do things differently. If someone does not care about the negative consequences you are experiencing due to their lack of willingness and effort to work on themselves, then they are not for you. The sooner you make peace with this and gently learn to let go, the sooner you will be free. You will be able to create space for those who will heal and grow alongside you.